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Learn to wait for the perfect time so that you may discover that all the pain found in waiting has a magnificent and awesome purpose. In God’s time, you will fall in love for the right reason with the right person. When that time comes, love will be worth the wait, the tears and the pain.

Then you’ll forget… that you ever waited.

An old lady once told me that third parties were not really the reason why so many relationships are ruined. It’s always between the two of you, you and your partner. If he decides to be seduced, then let him be. But always think about this: If your partner really loves you, he’ll care. If he cares, he won’t hurt you. If he doesn’t want you to be hurt, no matter how many beautiful ladies pass infront of him, they’ll never catch his eyes… ‘Cause he’ll be busy looking at you and only you…

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They met. But the timing isn’t right.

He has his reasons & she has hers. They’re both confused so they decided to part ways.

She wants him to wait. He said he will, whatever it takes.

Years later, they saw each other. But too much time has passed. Too late to make it work

People change… So as the heart.

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Advice to those who want to find love:

Find for yourself someone who’s…

Not necessarily rich, but classy and not afraid to be goofy at times.

Not necessarily stunningly handsome/beautiful, but can be whenever he/she wants to.

Not necessarily conservative, but values himself/herself enough to live life with limits and set for himself/herself rules (that can bend only for you).

Love someone whose heart has been broken so he/she knows exactly how it feels and won’t break yours.

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How do you move on?

You move on.. when your heart finally understands… that there’s no turning back.

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When you require another individual for your survival, you are a parasite on that person. There is no choice, no freedom involved in your relationship. It is a matter of necessity rather than love.

Sometimes we are in love in the idea of falling in love. Loving the illusion of having or missing someone. It’s alright to feel happy through other people, but don’t get dependent on achieving happiness by being with someone.

Love yourself first before sharing your life with somebody, because if you don’t, you will always look for people that you think can make you complete.

… And in the end, it will make you lose yourself more, bit by bit, piece by piece.

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Sometimes, you have to let your heart lead you even if it’s leading you to a place you never planned to be in.

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Sometimes, the people who are afraid of having commitment are the people who know the real meaning of it.

If you love someone, set him or her free. If people are meant to be in our lives, they will return of their own volition. It examines our powers of restraint, exaggerates our greatest fears, and exposes our perception of our self-worth. Most of all, it tests our FAITH. Remember, if it is God’s will, it will happen! If it’s not God’s will, it’s better for you to find out early in the game so you can be free to receive the person God has chosen for you.

A sweet truth: When God knows you’re READY for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.

Wait patiently. Don’t waste your time searchin’ & wishin’. Grow and be ready… and you’ll see.

God will give you a love story far better than you could ever dream of.